nonsense-choir:

counsellorsuggestion:

remember to cry for help without guilt-tripping. i know it feels like you’ve been abandoned and betrayed, but it’s probably not true, and it’s not okay to accuse the people around you of something they might not have done.

“i guess none of you like me” could be better phrased as “i feel unloved right now”

“but nobody cares anyway” could be better phrased as “i feel insignificant and i need reassurance”

rather than assuming others’ feelings, give them time to explain them. you’ll usually get a much better answer.

Not to mention guilt tripping is straight up manipulation and just because you’re feeling insecure/ lonely/etc doesn’t excuse manipulating others for attention. Just ask. Most people won’t mind giving you some kind of attention if you’re not making them feel like an asshole for something they didn’t even do.

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