Doing what makes you
happy even though someone does not approve it is NOT selfish.
Respecting your own
time is NOT selfish.
Ending a toxic
relationship is NOT selfish.
Saying “no” is NOT selfish.
Having some time for
yourself is NOT selfish.
Not being able to
help someone is NOT selfish.
Spending money on
yourself is NOT selfish.
Setting boundaries
is NOT selfish.
You are NOT selfish
for doing what’s best for you. It’s actually a healthy thing to
do. You are amazing and doing good things for yourself will never be
something bad.
me, long ago, perfectly innocent: hm, i don’t have a lot of followers, but i wanna perform well for them so i’m going to construct a good queue system and post content that they’ll enjoy !!
Imagine typing out this letter and not stopping halfway and thinking “Hmmm, this makes me sound like the worst human being in the world.”
Holy fucking shit
narcissism is the gift that keeps on taking
I just want to add this screenshot from Dear Prucence: Uncensored, because the reaction made me laugh so hard I cried, I wasn’t expecting it.
MIL is the one who needs to read a book on “gift etiquette.” It would be one thing to say, “Thank you, it’s lovely. You are so talented. I only wish you had, instead, made something for yourself or the children.” What if the son & dil didn’t have the funds to buy the in-laws a nice gift? That’s always a possibility but having the gift card allowed the dil to make a handmade gift. The gift was much more than just the purchase of the yarn. Some people just SUCK.