yourbigsisnissi:

You have to learn how to say no without you feeling like you’re being mean. Setting boundaries is how you see who does and doesn’t respect you, your time, or your emotional well-being. Anyone who sees your boundaries and thinks your being mean or tries to push that boundaries is not a person you owe your time or attention.

coshui:

coshui:

STOP HOLDING YOURSELF BACK. GO AFTER EVERYTHING YOU DESERVE & MORE UNAPOLOGETICALLY

Also, STOP SECOND GUESSING YOURSELF. STOP FEEDING THOSE DOUBTS. QUIT SAYING “I CAN’T” BECAUSE OH YES THE FUCK YOU CAN

afreakiam:

archaicpussy:

Good memories with a toxic person doesn’t cancel out what they did.

You are allowed to treasure those memories but its not a reason to go back to them or even forgive them.

totallyboardaf:

brownmuva:

doaasadek:

I got my heart broken and I survived, I failed 3 courses in university and graduated, I got rejected in the very first job I applied for and got promoted yesterday, I went through hard times with my family but then two years later, we laughed our hearts out over lunch, The closest friends disappointed me several times but I made new friends and loved them with all my heart. I did it once, I can do it again.

I NEEDED THIS SO BADLY

This. This everyday. I need this everyday.

peachisty:

friendly advice to not revolve your life around one person, one feeling, one place, one memory, one problem. the complexity of life and the diversity of the world is beautiful and you have the right to explore it. do not settle for less. you deserve better.