1. She wanted an abortion. He didn’t. 2. She had baby and gave him what he wanted. 3. She was clear about her intentions the entire time. 4. She pays OVER the court ordered amount in child support. 5. He regrets the child and wishes she would just do what he wants. (Aka. Be with him and take care of the kid she never wanted in the first place).
… and SHE’S the deadbeat?? Lol. Ok.
this girl is a fucking saint. i would’ve stolen his wallet and gotten an abortion because i’m not going through pregnancy and child support for some abusive fuckboy.
WTF
And women get the stereotype of trying to “trap” men with pregnancy but I feel like dudes do this shit way more
He ain’t shit because he got the baby he wanted, just not how he wanted it. Good for her
This proves my idea that most men don’t even want kids, they just want a trophy to show off or prove they a “real man” cause they created a baby like “real men” supposed to. They want women to have the kid and take care of it, so all they have to do is show the baby off.
And women go through the same shit. They get pregnant and have kids, but then the father leaves cause they didn’t want kids. But when they go to get custody/child support they “gold diggers” and get hate for trying to tie a man down before he ready.
she is paying 125% of child support, but he doesn’t want to hire any sort of child care. Doesn’t want to put the kid in daycare/nursery (the baby is probably old enough now, 18 mons is old enough). She wanted an abortion, didn’t want to actually date/settle down, and he’s bitching because she pays more than her fair share.
This is such shit because he assumed she would bond during pregnancy. A pregnancy that she didn’t fully consent to.
And his family is helping left and right, but he’s still bitching that he doesn’t want to be a single parent. He wants HER TO BE A PARENT.
I feel for him, i do, but goddamn how hard headed to you have to fucking be.
I don’t feel for him at all. He got what he wanted (or demanded).
I feel for the kid. But not for him.
I’m so thrilled that no one there is tolerating his whiney bullshit and calling him exactly what he is. Selfish, spoiled, lazy, and a bad parent.